VietNamNet Bridge – Standing on the threshold of her unfinished house, 32-year-old Nguyen
Thi Luong lit up with joy thinking about her coming baby.
Three
years ago, the thin woman from northern Thai Nguyen Province's Dai Tu District
never thought she would be so happy. That year, Luong lost her husband and
first child to HIV/AIDS and found out she too was infected with the virus.
But
with the support of her friends and continued counseling, as well as the help
of the local branch of Hoa Huong Duong (Sun Flower) Club, an organisations that
provides care and support to people living with HIV/AIDS, Luong eventually
gained back her sense of self.
When
she joined the club of 100 HIV-infected members— 83 of whom were women—Luong
found that having HIV did not mean her life was over.
Through
monthly discussions, Luong learned about how to deal with her condition.
However, the club sessions did not address her primary longing: a baby.
Last
year, after much counseling, Luong and her new partner decided to go through
with a pregnancy.
"Nobody
supports our decision. Neighbors and relatives, even my sister, believed that I
would transmit the deadly virus to my baby and it would be a burden to society
after I died," Luong said.
However,
Luong is now four months pregnant and receiving antiretroviral therapy (ARV).
She strongly believes that her baby will be born without the virus.
"My
partner and I are building our house and preparing everything to welcome our
baby," Luong said.
Another
woman from Ha Thuong Commune, 33-year-old Tran Thi Thu, has the same desire as
Luong but failed twice to become a mother.
Her
five-year-old daughter died of the disease five years ago; her son followed,
only one hour after coming into the world.
"I
participate in several projects for HIV, which makes me busy the whole day. But
after work, I'm a lonely woman in the cold house where I so longed to have a
child," Thu said.
She
expressed determination to try to have another baby next year.
"Even
living with HIV, a woman still deserves to have her own baby," Thu said.
"As long as you are optimistic, I strongly believe that God will not let
you down whether you are a healthy person or an HIV sufferer."
Luong
and Thu's desire to have a baby is common among HIV-infected women in the
district, according to Dinh Thi Xuan, head of Hoa Huong Duong club.
"All
female HIV carriers in the club talk about their burning desire to have
children," she said.
Xuan
added that three members of the club have children who tested negative for HIV.
This encouraged other women not to give up hope of having healthy children.
"I
will also have a baby when my financial state is better," Xuan confided.
Without
preventive intervention, between 20 and 45 per cent of infants born to
HIV-positive mothers contract HIV through mother-to-child transmission during
pregnancy, childbirth or breastfeeding, according to the World Health
Organization (WHO). The proportion can be reduced to less than 10 per cent
through a combination of prevention measures, including antiretroviral therapy
(ART) for the expectant mother and her newborn child, hygienic delivery
conditions and safe infant feeding.
Thai
Nguyen ranks fourth out of ten provinces nationwide with the highest number of
HIV cases, according to the provincial department of health. Over 9,000 HIV
cases have been reported throughout the province, 19 per cent of them women.
The
risk of mother-to-child transmission reported in the province last year was six
per cent, said vice director of the province's HIV/AIDS Prevention and Control
Centre Truong Binh Minh.
"Motherhood
is stipulated to be the legal right of women following the Viet Nam Population
Ordinance so nobody can prevent HIV-positive women from having children,"
he said.
However,
Minh recommended those women ask for counselors' advice before having children
during pregnancy and after delivery. In addition, they should take account of
factors that affect a woman's ability to bring up the child such as financial
condition, job and support from relatives.
"Scientists
have not found any drugs to eradicate HIV/AIDS, so both HIV-positive women and
their children face the risk of mother-to-child transmission. Thus, the
government should pay attention to the fact that HIV women are choosing to have
children," Minh said.
The
United Nations Joint Program on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS) officially states that
parents living with HIV have their sexual reproductive rights protected and can
have HIV-free babies.
"All
women have the right to choice when it comes to exercising their sexual and
reproductive health and rights and protecting themselves from risk of HIV
infection," said UNAIDS Deputy Executive Director, Management and
Governance, Jan Beagle. "AIDS is much more than a health issue, it is a
development issue, a rights issue, and it is clear that gender equality and
human rights are non-negotiable elements to ensure effective HIV and health
responses as well as social justice for all."
In a
recent UNAIDS survey, women living with HIV expressed concern about the advice
given by many health workers and authorities to avoid having children. They
also complained that they lacked information about how to have a safe pregnancy
and deliver an HIV-negative child.
"People
living with HIV aim to live in a world that protects their sexual and
reproductive rights," the survey concluded. The authors added that this
required training health providers to teach HIV-positive individuals
considering becoming pregnant about safe conception methods as well as changes
in regulations to improve access to fertility procedures that reduced the risk
of passing on the virus.
Source: VNS
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